There is one rather immutable truth to real estate: if you write a commission check, you are at a closing table selling your property.
Which, I believe, is the point. Closing.
Often, when listing a For Sale By Owner (most end up listing), I am asked what happens if someone who expressed interest while the home was a FSBO buys after I list the home. My answer is that if they didn’t buy then, but do buy now, then I have done my job.
Getting them to buy is what the agent is paid for. If the seller could get them to buy, they wouldn’t need me. Just because they saw it with the owner first it doesn’t mean anything. We aren’t paid for getting people first, we are paid for getting people to the closing table.
In other words, outcome. Results.
Upon occasion, I will grant a seller an exclusion on certain buyers– it can be a neighbor, it can be someone who is trying to sell their place so they can buy now, or any other sort of buyer. My exclusions are not an exemption from commission, and here’s why: an offer is just a beginning. It is work and skill to affect a closing. If I gave my seller client a 0% commission for an excluded buyer, a complete exemption, then it is THEY who will have to be the agent, not me, because I can’t hold that buyer’s hand for 2-3 months for no compensation.
If the seller client wants to handle pre-qualification, offer, negotiation, contracts, inspection, mortgage process title and closing alone on their own, they invite disaster. I never want to be in competition with a client, nor do I want to wait unpaid on the sidelines while they engage in a Do It Yourself project on the biggest transaction of their life to save a few points. A saved line item is often at a cost of a lower net, and that is not conjecture- it is a fact. I’m better than someone selling their own house.
Exclusions make sense when a predetermined buyer comes in early in the process, saving the listing agent time and marketing resources and all parties can just do the work from offer forward to closing. There is no buyer agent to pay, and a reduction in fees can be negotiated. However, an elimination of fees altogether is penny wise and pound foolish- too much can go wrong. You want a professional working for you, and no professional can work for free. What good is “saving” the commission if it doesn’t close?




Realizing that they cannot ruin lives without, um, following the law, 
Two items of significance today:
like a million bucks and feeling relieved and dazed. As we walked out of the Church, she turned to me and said “Oh, that’s not any different.” I am sure every husband can remember that first moment when he wanted to strangle his wife. That was mine, 30 seconds after the wedding. She worked fast. 
You Aren’t in the Real Estate Business
Paul Crego, my original broker and mentor, called costly mistakes “tuition in life.” Maybe he knew that spin was far more empowering than my own on my goofs. He had another turn of the phrase when not such good things happened, and that was “now you are in the real estate business,” as if those occurrence were rites of passage. He was right. They are. You aren’t in the business until you get out there and get yourself exposed to good, the bad, and the ugly.
So, with tongue planted firmly in cheek, I’ll run down how you aren’t in the real estate business until…